.But what Astrid does not understand however is actually an honest truth that both Ortega and O'Hara-- who possesses two boys-- can attest to: The simple fact that your partnership with your parents improvements and advances as you both grow older, as well as with any luck for the better. "Your world centers around [your kids] when they're infants [and also] it is actually a great deal work however wonderful," O'Hara says. "Eventually, you really skip that, since after that you can't acquire all of them to do anything you want them to do, given that they start creating their own thoughts, their own point of views." And also at some point, you end up in the place O'Hara, whose boys remain in their 20s and 30s, finds herself today, able to profit from her kids. "They're just such trendy youthful men," she says. "I'm not their pal, however I adore possessing conversations along with them and learning more about how they consider life.".